PRESENTATION OF THE BOOK
 Since the occupation of our societies, Eurasia has imposed its model of the couple, symbolized by the Shakespearean myth of Romeo and Juliet. However, this unstable model, with the marriage ceremony at the civil status as its summit, is what has favored the destruction of our social fabric.

 Such a model has indeed given rise to immoral values and behaviors as well as to the multiplication of divorces, due to its serious theoretical and practical inadequacies: illusion of a fusion between the partners, unhealthy affective dependence, possession of the woman. by the man...
 In order to avoid the many consequences of such a model and to build happy and harmonious couples, we must reconnect with the social values specific to our Culture.

 This is precisely the object of Ndzele, namely this science which proposes to spur the human individual in his personal development and in the lasting development as a couple that he can be taken to form.
 This model is the one that allows a harmonious functioning of the couple, on the basis of the need for solidarity and complementarity between its founding members (consideration and contribution of each in the family and social construction).

 This model takes into account the fulfillment of the vocation and ambitions of each linked partner and by each of them. It is under these conditions alone, developed in this work, that a couple can live in harmony, the consideration of one by the other and in sustainability.